


Start with one finger, until you see that she’s getting into it, then slowly insert another finger.” Even women who likes to be finger fucked into oblivion need a build-up. Sofiya Alexandra, comedian and co-host of Private Parts Unknown, a sexualities podcast exploring conversations on sex, dating & genderĬherith: “I can always tell when the man I’m with is trying to treat my body like a video game that he needs to win, like if he just goes HARDER AND FASTER HE’LL BEAT THIS LEVEL AND I’LL CUM, but it doesn’t work like that.Courtney Kocak, comedian and co-host of Private Parts Unknown, a sexualities podcast exploring conversations on sex, dating & gender.Cherith Fuller, comedian and writer of the upcoming comedy album, Cool Chill Girl, which tackles themes exploring sexuality and modern dating.Ultimately, the best fingering technique is asking your partner what feels good to them! Still, our sources said there are a few universal pointers that could help all guys get better with their hands.

Now, there's one big caveat here, which is that every woman and every vulva is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all method when it comes to fingering. Bad digital stimulation isn't just a huge turn-off it can also be incredibly painful! That's why we spoke with some sex-positive women about how men can up their fingering game. Whether it's part of foreplay or the main event, fingering can be super pleasurable for people with vulvas-as long as it's done well.
